Wednesday, February 08, 2006

PEOPLE & PROBLEMS

BEFORE I START WRITING THIS BLOG I WOULD LIKE TO THANK MY MOM & MY FRIENDS FROM WHOM I COULD DRAW THE INSPIRATION TO WRITE. AND ALSO MY SISTER WHO CONTINIOUSLY COAXED ME TO WRITE SOMETHING.THANKS MAN U PEOPLE SIMPLY ROCK.


People around us influence our lives in good or bad ways .and life in general has its own ups & downs.though it is said that life is a mixture of happiness & sorrows but what happens when the level of sorrows exceeds the level of happinness?PROBLEMS they arise(and people like me get to write blogs)well jokes apart.

THINGS HARD TO UNERSTAND OR DEALWITH is the simple definition for PROBLEM according to the OXFORD.

But u see life is not as simple as that.I have seen people face problems to its hilt and that is why i would like to write about them,after all sorrow gets divided only when you share.

The first prson i would like to mention is my MOTHER{Dr ANJU BHUI}.
When u see the"Dr" tag u must be wondering what must be bothering this woman so much but only when u see her life closely will u realise what is she going through.
Coming from a rich and influential buissiness family in Orissa ANJU would have never imagined that after having a good and secure childhood destiny would mock at her at age 35 i e when she lost her husband Mr.Arunkumar Bhui(DAD I REALLY MISS U), AND bringing up two girl kids aged 9&5 then and that to in a place like bombay wasnt an easy job. when paternal relatives turn their backs at u hard becomes harder.
Let anyone say anything its always seen when u laugh the world laughs with u & when u weep u weep alone.
But this lady had her priorities clear & nothing was more imporant to her than bringing her two kids in a good manner.thanks to her education(its not for nothing that they say educate the female species, hey grandpa i am thankful to u too) that she was sucessful in her goal.there were obstruction in the begining ,you know the indian society it never allows a single woman to progress without anyones help be it even the 21st century.but atleast this time destiny was with her & so was GOD and she succeeded in her goal.and today her daughters are20&16 (and not that bad humanbeings).
hey mom though i cannot express it i really salute you for what ever you did for us.Really woman it requires a lot of courage to go through all this singly because afterall courage isnt having the strength to go on it is going on when you dont have the strength.A well written life is almost as rare as a well spent one.

So here is the second contender of my blog BHOOMI {MEANING:THE BEAUTIFUL EARTH}if only her life could be that beautiful.you really start hateing life when ur childhood starts with a bad note.and at 16 everyday going through problems&new problems is worse than worst.having a drunkard and good for nothing father at home who phisically abuses his wife & daughter after getting drunk is like a nightmare during the day.And at the same time trying to cope with study & townside peer pressure is really a tough job.but BHOOMI u r really doing an awesome job.keep it up dude..coz our greatest glory is not in never falling ,but in rising every time we fall.&i am 100%sure GOD has very good plans for you in the future.& always rember 1 thing

'when darkness is seen every whereand it is dificult to see a ray of light dont give up hope but keep on trying and everything will be soon allright'

well these are very less problems mentioned as compared to people in the world after all problem be it intense or small is a problem after all.& its gravity can never be explained through writing.but we never stop living or loving LIFE with the hope that these problems will end & happiness will finally come to us.